These pictures were taking by one of the earliest survivors to join Playing To Live! as a volunteer caregiver, Decontee Davis. She was the lead caregiver at the ICC and she helped Jessi, PTL!'s co-founder train other volunteer caregivers. Decontee also contributed to the finalization of the activities with the Ministry of gender and the Ministry of health. She currently works with 20 children, including her son.
Decontee is also an Ebola survivor. At the height of the epidemic Doctors believed her blood could help provide others who were suffering from Ebola the ability to fight off the disease. She participated in an experimental trial in which she donated a pint of her blood to be used in an attempt to cure another patient interned with Ebola. The woman lived thanks to Decontee's donation. It is am incredible story of healing and faith.
We are grateful to have Decontee on our team of dedicated volunteer caregivers. She is helping us to bring healing and joy to the children of Liberia.
The training of local caregivers, including trained social workers continues in Liberia. Our Playing To Live! program has grown by leaps and bounds in the last year through our partnership with RESH and a generous six month grant from UNICEF.
We wanted to share some pictures taken by our local, on the ground support, Shannon Busby, who is helping facilitate these trainings.
The holiday program is in its final week and the Playing To Live! team is thrilled with the incredible work that everyone involved put forth to make this a success. The kids that participated in the program created superhero capes and masks and found strengths they never realized they had!
Our 40 day Playing To Live! South Africa Indigeogo Campaign has ended and we raised almost 2K thanks to your support and donations! The Creative Arts Therapy trainings and programming we bring to communities can't happen without your help. We are so grateful to all the amazing people (like you!) who believe in this mission!
We look forward to sharing our progress as Playing To Live! continues to grow and expand into more communities worldwide. Thank you all!
While our Indiegogo Campaign has come to a close, please continue to support our work by making a donation on our website today! Every dollar counts in improving the lives of the children we serve!
The holiday program in South Africa has been incredible! We just finished and can;t wait to see what happens next! Our creative superheroes were so excited that they got to take home their super capes (now covered with strengths that they added). The Playing To Live! team witnessed the kids grow tremendously over the last month. By the end of the program the children were excitedly talking about their strengths and ways they overcome obstacles.
These three mothers faced Ebola and survived. One of them came down the with disease in late 2014 and survived. Mary returned to her community in Bomi, wearing nothing more than an old shirt, skirt, and pair of flip-flops given to her upon discharge. One of her two children, a young girl, had died of Ebola in the Ebola Treatment Unit (ETU). Her youngest child never contracted the virus and was healthy. He was being cared for by her two female family members (in picture) while she received treatment. She was overwhelmed to again hold him in her arms. In total, nearly a dozen members died in Mary's family- her child, aunts, cousins, a brother. Her nightmare should have been over but it wasn't. When her family took her home, she was met with devastation.
Her house had been ransacked by neighbors who presumed most of family to be dead. Little was left except for a used, disinfected mattress on which she had first fell ill and a stool. Her neighbors claimed that everything had been destroyed by the County Health Team, yet she saw several of her possessions in her neighbors' homes. They offered her little help. Worse, they told her that they not want her to return. She was chastised for having been one of the 'cursed' to bring Ebola to the community. Neighbors felt resentful and frightened by her and her direct family members, including her son.
"They think I still carry the virus," she explains to a Playing to Live social worker assigned to work in her community. Their belief she can infect others balances between misunderstanding of how the virus works and a common cultural perspective that those infected are spiritually cursed, a state that can be passed on to others by proximity. She can barely form words for what she experienced since returning. Mary says that the stigmatization that she faced at home was almost worse than horror she witnessed while interned in the ETU.
After a few weeks upon her return, her husband could take no more. He abandoned her and their child to move to Monrovia to start a new life away from the memories. "When he left, I grew more poor. I had no money [coming out of the ETU]. When my family lent me small [money] to buy things to sell in the market, people came and took my supplies." In broad daylight, random men from the community would burst into her home and rob her meager possessions. She could barely make a living enough to buy food, often having to rely on family members to feed her child. The Playing to Live Social Worker, trained by Renewed Energy Serving Humanity (RESH), reports on his initial visit to the home that Mary's child, Victor, is malnourished and underweight. Neither mother and child have proper clothing. Mary's only shoes are the same flip-flops she was given by the ETU, now broken. When the Social Worker asks about the bruises on her arm and face, she shies away from answering. Some of her neighbors have taken to physically harming her, likely in hopes of warding her away from near their homes.
"I just want to pick myself up," Mary cries. The chances of her new life seem lonely and bleak, and now with Ebola ending, her new reality is setting in.
The stigmatization that Mary faces as an Ebola survivor is more common than many realize, in Liberia. In a survey conducted by the National Survivors' Network, nearly four in ten survivors reported experiencing horrific stigmatization. 50 percent have lost their jobs as a result of Ebola. One in ten report physical and/or psychological abuse by family or neighbors because of their status as survivors. It should be made apparent that 50-70 percent of people who came down with Ebola did not survive. So being a person who survived is what many call a 'miracle'. Yet instead of being welcomed back as heroes who made the odds, many people who survived are shamed and abandoned by those who once cared for them.
The Playing to Live program is trying to support positive change in communities like Mary's. In collaboration with RESH, the Liberian Ministry of Gender Development, and through funding from UNICEF, Playing to Live will work in 40 communities most of which were hot zones during the crisis, supporting households affected by Ebola, reaching in total over 800 children and 150 adults. In each community, a Project Associates (many of whom are Ebola survivors themselves) works with about 20 children in specific households identified as highly affected, meaning one or more people came down with the virus or had family/neighbors who did. Two to three days a week, the Project Associate facilitates play, art, and expressive activities designed to help the children work through their emotional and psychological stress, to develop their resiliency and coping skills. All the materials are provided free of cost. Additionally, a Playing to Live Social Worker conducts frequent visits to each home to monitor the children's wellbeing. Moreover, the Social Worker is trained to provide supportive talks with the parents and guardians of the children, like Mary, to provide them a safe space to share their thoughts and feelings. These parents and guardians will also receive training in caregiving and children's rights, and ongoing mentoring in coping mechanisms that they can use in times of stress. Playing to Live staff additionally liaison with community leaders, such as religious and tribal leaders, teachers, and elected officials, to advocate on behalf of the affected households for community support to combat the stigmatization.
"I am excited to have my child play. It is good [Playing to Live] helps us," Mary expresses, holding her son. While there is more that needs to be done to help Ebola survivors, Playing to Live will actively work to support parents and guardians like Mary to make sense of their experiences and to begin the healing process.
While hard work, the excitement of bringing in fun and expressive programming is exciting for all parties. Together the community and Playing to Live! adapt our programming to the specific culture, and our experience thus far is a combination of enthusiasm and empowering conversations. Though through our pilot programs and evaluations/research, we at Playing to Live! begin to see the gaps and needs in the community.
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The Playing To Live! clinical team plays an essential role in keeping our caregivers and kids safe while engaging in therapeutic play, art making and yoga. Their expertise in therapeutic approaches, theories on trauma, and developmental counseling comes into play when creating the techniques being taught to our volunteer caregivers.
Here in South Africa, we are noticing that there needs to be an addition in our training where we explore how to create a “safe space” through consistent boundaries and organization. The weeks following the Holiday program will focus on these developments and discoveries.
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Today was a third day of the TLF holiday program, where Playing to Live! is supporting the expressive therapy inspired programming. In much of our work, we see the incredible beauty of combining community empowerment, children, and the creative arts, but if this work was all easy and simple, then Playing to Live! would not be needed.
Bringing together clinical expertise from our own countries and the cultural intricacies from South Africa is a beautiful, but challenging process. We come into low resource communities, where through partnerships we have identified a need for community development to support children who have experienced high amounts of trauma. The key is working together to make what believe will be helpful with what our local guides know in their culture to be meaningful. Only when these two elements come together can we make a lasting impact.
Our creative superheroes continue to work on their superhero capes, a directive developed by the PTL! clinical team and adapted in collaboration with our local South African partners, TLF.
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